I realized that I hate being hit on. I really dislike dating. I rather just hang out wth him with a bunch of other people to get to know him, like a friendship. Watch how he interacts with othr people, and watch his body language. If we hit it off, then we slowly start hanging out by ourselves. I don't like how the guy has to plan the date, pay for everything, etc. I like to be equals. And, I hate being hit on!! It makes me feel like a piece of meat. Just, be friendly with me and if we feel something, flirt with me. If I feel something, I'll flirt back. Easy as that. Don't full on hit on me. It's a major turn-off.
A boy from school is treating me like a piece of meat. I ignored his text messages, but then he tried a new approach - facebook. Big step up. I am proud to say that I told him how it was. I wasn't interested and I hope that he will get the hint to stop hitting on me through text messages and facebook.
I'm glad I keep the good boys for myself with friendship. I absolutely love my guy friends. But I will be patient, wait for my missionary, and if anything comes along in the process, I'll give it a shot. Who knows what I'll find!
Sorry. I usually am not this obsessive with dating, but going to college has really opened up new doors for me. And because of a new close friend, I am keeping my eyes open for anything and everything to make sure I get what I deserve in a relationship. I don't really want to repeat history.
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